One of the most meaningful questions I hear from brides is:
“Is there a way I can wear part of my mom’s wedding dress on my wedding day?”

And the answer is almost always yes.

You don’t have to wear the gown exactly as it was in order to honor it. In fact, some of the most emotional, heirloom-quality bridal pieces I’ve ever created have come from reimagining parts of a mother’s wedding dress into new accessories that fit the bride’s personal style while still carrying all that history and love.

Here are some of my favorite ways to redesign your mom’s wedding dress into something you can wear and cherish forever.

A Veil Made From Your Mom’s Dress

This is by far the most popular and deeply meaningful option.

Lace, tulle, or even silk from your mom’s gown can be carefully repurposed into:
• a cathedral or chapel length veil
• a mantilla-style lace veil
• a blusher layer for the ceremony
• or a minimalist sheer veil with sentimental lace placement

A veil becomes part of the most emotional moment of the day — the walk down the aisle — and many brides tell me it feels like their mom is walking with them in spirit. After the wedding, the veil can be preserved and even passed down again someday.

A Bouquet Wrap With Sentimental Detail

If you want something subtle but incredibly meaningful, a bouquet wrap is a beautiful choice.

Fabric or lace from your mom’s dress can be transformed into:
• a soft silk wrap around the bouquet handle
• lace tied with ribbon or heirloom buttons
• or layered with charms, embroidery, or stitching

It stays close to your hands and heart all day, shows up in photography, and doesn’t require any changes to your wedding gown. It’s perfect for brides who love sentimental touches without altering their overall look.

A Lace Choker or Collar for a Modern Twist

For brides wearing clean, modern, or minimalist dresses, a choker collar or neckline detail made from their mom’s lace can be stunning.

This works beautifully for:
• strapless gowns
• square or straight necklines
• courthouse or reception looks

It adds instant romance and vintage soul to a simple silhouette and can later be worn again as a keepsake accessory for anniversaries or special occasions.

Detachable Sleeves or Shoulder Pieces

Another beautiful way to repurpose heirloom fabric is through removable sleeves or shoulder wraps.

Options include:
• soft lace draped sleeves
• off-the-shoulder tulle sleeves
• sheer bishop-style sleeves
• romantic shoulder capes

These can be worn for the ceremony and removed for the reception, giving you two different looks while still incorporating your mom’s gown into your day.

A Wedding Garter Made From Her Dress

A garter is one of the most intimate and meaningful places to incorporate your mom’s dress.

Lace, silk, or small appliqués from the gown can be sewn onto:
• a soft stretch garter band
• a keepsake garter for photos
• or even a “toss” garter paired with a keepsake one

It’s a small detail, but one that many brides treasure because it’s worn so close to the heart — and often becomes a keepsake long after the wedding day.

A Ring Bearer Pillow for Future Generations

If you want to preserve your mom’s dress in a way that can be used again and again, a ring bearer pillow is a beautiful option.

Fabric and lace from her gown can be incorporated into:
• a classic ring pillow
• a soft heirloom cushion
• or a framed keepsake pillow for display after the wedding

This is especially meaningful for families

Preserving the Dress While Creating Something New

Many brides worry that redesigning their mom’s dress means destroying it. In reality, most projects can be done by using trims, overlays, sleeves, or train sections — without cutting into the main structure of the gown.

Whenever possible, I recommend:
• preserving original seams
• repurposing detachable elements first
• keeping leftover fabric safely stored

That way, the dress remains a treasured family heirloom, even as parts of it become part of your own wedding story.

Carrying Her Story Into Yours

Redesigning your mom’s wedding dress isn’t about changing the past.
It’s about honoring it in a way that feels authentic to who you are today.

Whether it becomes your veil, bouquet wrap, collar, or sleeves, these pieces carry prayers, memories, and love that no brand-new accessory ever could.

And someday, if you choose, they can be passed down again — continuing a beautiful legacy of women, love, and family.

If you’re considering repurposing your mom’s wedding dress and would like help exploring what’s possible with your specific fabric or lace, I would be honored to guide you through the options 🤍